In my family, my dad's side, his father was in a fraternity as well as my father. My sister was a large part of her sorority as well, so I guess I'm feeling a little bit of pressure to rush. I also think that a large part of the social life here at SMU is based on the greek system. Is there somewhat of an indirect social pressure to rush here? I definitely think so. The reason of my uncertainty to rush is not because I think that I will not have a good time, I am just unsure of whether or not a fraternity is the right thing for me. Does this mean that I am not the typical version of an SMU male student? I don't think so.
Over more than 60% of the student body at SMU is involved in Greek Life. The majority of the student body is obviously involved, so how does the other 40% socialize? I have no idea. I almost feel forced to be involved in a frat, just so that I will be able to meet 60 percent of the people here.
My final decision is still up in the air. What do you think? Is it possible to still be a part of the majority of social activities without being involved in a frat, or is there no hope?
2 comments:
Please don't remind me.
It seems like everyone I talk to is 100% going to join a frat and they know which one/ones they want to be in.
Here I am sitting on my hands unable to decipher the douchiest frat from the dopest.
Although, I'm positive if I don't join a frat that I won't immediately get cut out of the social scene.
for there is a world beyond frats
...a world with out douch baggery
...a world where you don't have to wear button ups
....oh do I dream about that world.
Just be ready to give up another 24-48 hours per week that you don't have, and expect a full letter grade drop in your GPA. Reality, especially for the guys. Youmight also find yourself with some new bruises and abrasions on the tops of your feet--that you just cannot explain.
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